Despite looking good on paper, this man is emotionally absent. He shares no vulnerabilities with his wife, no fears, and no insecurities. He doesn’t even like talking about insecurities or vulnerabilities, and shuts down or problem solves when his wife brings up her vulnerable emotions. She has many of these, because often she is struggling with low self-esteem from experiences in her own upbringing. Her husband’s inability to express emotions or validate her emotions leads to attachment panic i